Interview with Mom: Yes, she really almost left us on the side of the road.

It’s almost Mothers’ Day! I’m celebrating all week with my favorite mom. That’s my mom. And no, you can’t have her.

Yesterday, Mom gave up the secret to marriage. And today? Well, a mom’s gotta talk kids at some point.

Me: So, what was the hardest part of parenting, besides not leaving us on the side of the road even when you wanted to? What has been the best part?

Mama C: The hardest part is letting you two make your own mistakes because I knew you wouldn’t listen to advice from a parental unit. A few times we did make you do things that we felt were important, but generally you had to learn to make good choices. Side of the road almost happened, though.

(Ed. note: Circa 1983, Mom traveled to the next town over – kids in tow – to go to Target. Poochie was 3, and I was 8. If memory serves, we were little monsters the entire trip. On the ride home, Mom had had it. She pulled her Buick Regal over to the side of the highway, in front of the Pioneer Feed plant. She used a chilly, dead-serious tone we’d never heard before. I began to calculate how long it would take me to walk home 20 miles. Although she didn’t physically remove us from the car, whatever she said [the words are lost to time] really got the desired effect. No one said a word the rest of the ride home – nor the rest of the day. The episode lives on in family lore – obviously.)

Oh, the best parts … unexpected/spontaneous hugs from you two whether as kids, teenagers or adults. They just melt my heart. Seeing the adults you and Poochie have grown to be — loving, kind, caring people. Uh-huh … need another Kleenex.

Me: We take after our parents.

What’s your experience been like as a grandma?

Mama C: Everyone tells you it’s awesome as they bore you with endless pictures of ugly babies. But Nora is so wonderful. And beautiful and smart and all those other things. I am overwhelmed with love, with the miracle of her. And tearful [hard to believe, huh?] when I think that my mother never knew what wonderful children I have, my dad didn’t really ‘know’ you and Poochie. I think when you’re the parent, you’re so busy taking care of the baby/child you forget to see the wonder of it all, but as a grandparent you just sit back and watch.

I love “the wonder of it all,” don’t you?

Tomorrow, don’t miss Mom’s thoughts on creativity, friendship, and that crappy habit women have of taking care of everybody else first.

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  • Reply cookingwithgas May 9, 2014 at 11:18 am

    As, nice.
    I use to pull over and tell mine I could sit there all day.
    That put them right and off we would go.
    Hey, you have to be the same age as my oldest……

  • Reply Green Girl in Wisconsin May 9, 2014 at 10:14 pm

    Well, I have booted my kids from the Momvan on multiple occasions. A girl's gotta make good on her threats, you know.
    She totally sums up what I imagine grandmothering is like. Wow.

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